2 comments on “Five-Minute Friday: Time

  1. Time .. Whether spent writing or in doing other things . . . It’s all valuable in one way or another whether we take the tome to acknowledge it.

    32 years had flown by without blinking, and this week I was suddenly back in the spring of 1979. An abrupt announcement in a phone message — she had a massive heart attack and they had to pull the plug — in parallel to the one back then — Johnnie Wiley had a cerebral aneurysm on Sunday and was rushed to Durham Regional. Both statements voiced by the same person as calmly as someone else might say “the sun came up on time this morning.”

    This week I was right back at Durham Regional, in the sane ICU, a pale white face in a sea of black ones. Reminded of an early morning when Plunk befuddled the large security guard by telling him in no uncertain terms “She’s my sister!” to guarantee my right to go with her to see “our” mother before her life-changing brain surgery. This week I was the person who realized that Plunk herself was gone, her skin cool to the touch, no gurgles of breath, no slow and steady heartbeat — gone at 57– 3 days after the life-support respirator had stopped breathing for her. Time stood still that afternoon as first her brother then her mother and cousins and fiancée arrived to cry or wail or stand silently on the hall.

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